10 Rules All Soccer Moms Should Follow

10 Rules All Soccer Moms Should Follow Blog
10 Rules All Soccer Moms Should Follow Blog

From preventing the risks associated with a sedentary lifestyle to teaching kids valuable lessons they’ll carry throughout their lives, youth sports like soccer are packed with benefits. There are also a variety of lessons that parents can learn from their child’s involvement in the sport, especially new soccer moms that aren’t quite acclimated to the atmosphere of youth sports leagues. These are 10 of the rules that all soccer moms, both rookie and seasoned vets, should follow.

My Blazes Broilers Beavers 6th grade soccer team in Redmond, WA
My Blazes Broilers Beavers 6th grade soccer team in Redmond, WA

1.Don’t Berate the Coaches or Officials – The first and arguably one of the most important rules for soccer moms to follow is that berating the officials or coaches simply is not allowed. While most officials are loath to throw out a parent because it will ruin the game for the kids involved, you shouldn’t take that goodwill for granted.
2.No Sideline Coaching – Coaches of youth teams are almost always volunteers, and the job is largely a thankless one. It’s not unusual for parents to approach coaches to air grievances and to explain how they could have coached the team better themselves, which is certainly off-putting to the coaches who are donating their time. Your kids’ coach probably won’t be won over by your logic, but there’s a good chance he’ll be less than pleased by your tirades. Unless you plan to take up the mantle of Coach before the next practice, don’t try to do the coach’s job for him.
3.Familiarize Yourself With the Game – Few things are as embarrassing to a child as a parent that’s shouting for a touchdown during a soccer game. If you plan to be truly involved in your child’s athletic pursuits, you should make an effort to at least learn the basic rules of the game.
4.Pack Plenty of Healthy Snacks – Kids will work up a big appetite from running up and down a soccer field, which is one of the reasons why parents are encouraged to bring snacks to practices and games. Don’t be the parent that doesn’t hold up their end of the bargain. If there’s an arrangement among moms determining who supplies snacks on a given day, don’t skimp or skip your turn altogether.
5.Don’t Put Undue Pressure On Your Child – There’s a joy that comes with winning, and there’s no doubt that kids gain plenty of benefits from playing youth sports. Still, even the most talented middle and high school athletes had to learn how to play. During this phase, your child should be playing soccer for the experience and to learn the basic techniques. Don’t treat her like an entire professional soccer career is down the drain because of a simple mistake or honest error.
6.Don’t Force Your Child to Play – While there is definitely a wide array of benefits that come from playing sports, your child is not likely to reap the emotional and social ones if she truly hates the game. It’s important to encourage plenty of physical activity, but you shouldn’t force an absolutely unwilling child to continue playing every season.
7.Encourage Plenty of Practice – Practice makes perfect, which means that your little one needs to work on his technique while he’s at home, too. Soccer practice shouldn’t be the only time he picks up a ball, especially if he’s eager to play. You might have to make some new rules about practicing indoors if you’re interested in preserving your lamps, but you should also make sure that he has ample opportunity to practice in the backyard or the park if he feels so inclined.
8.Model Good Sportsmanship – Good sportsmanship is learned, not an innate ability. Your child will learn much about how she reacts to a given situation by observing and taking cues from your behavior. That’s why it’s so important for parents to model good sportsmanship; otherwise, it’s a difficult concept to teach the youngsters.
9.Don’t Criticize the Other Team – It’s tempting to bash the players on an opposing team, especially if they won the match. Still, you should remember that those players are also someone’s children, and that your kids don’t need to get the message that badmouthing their opponents is acceptable behavior.
10.Encourage Kids After a Loss, Don’t Lecture – After a loss, it’s easy to get so wrapped up in helping your child to learn from his mistakes that you slip into a lecturing tone. Your child will feel bad enough about losing, and will need your support. Instead of giving her a rundown of the mistakes she’s already beating herself up over, try to point out the things that she did right during the match.

Remember that the experience of participating in a youth sports league is supposed to be a fun and enriching one for your children. Bad behavior or a lack of interest expressed by a parent can be enough to spoil that experience for her altogether, so it’s important that you adhere to the basic rules of soccer mom etiquette in order to ensure that the experience is a fulfilling and rewarding one.

Our Sports Techie community gratitude goes to Maureen Denard for sharing this wonderful blog at: http://www.findananny.net/blog/10-rules-all-soccer-moms-should-follow/.

My Blazes Broilers Beavers 12th grade soccer team in Redmond, WA
My Blazes Broilers Beavers 12th grade soccer team in Redmond, WA

Sports Techie, I grew up with a soccer Mom straight from Ecuador who loved to follow these ten rules. When we moved to Redmond down the street from Microsoft in 1978 I was placed on the Blazes Broiler city team. The Beavers were Coached by Denny Morgan because his son Wayne was on the team. Our 6th grade year we went undefeated at 12-0 and jelled as a team and as life-long friends. I was just invited by Scott Sharp to go the Seattle Sounders FC MLS game on Saturday via a Facebook IM.

Funniest thing though, of all the goals, wins and loses through the seasons until we graduated as Seniors from Redmond High School, it was a best friend’s Mommy, Barbara Sather, who always pops to mind because she brought the best orange slices for our halftime rehydration snack. I was what is considered borderline obese that year so thank you for the healthy, sugar free alternative. Barbara is ill and in our thoughts as she continues to be the best soccer Mom she knows how to be like all the rest of you Mom’s are too.

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I am excited to become a soccer Dad myself, while keeping rule six in mind to not force any sport on a child that he does not want to play, and watching Jessica be the awesome soccer Mother she was made to be for our son, Kellan Roble. The 10 Rules All Soccer Moms Should Follow on the Sports Techie blog will be our new roadmap to good futbol sportsmanship.

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